gurmiq dy pirpyk ivc pirvwrk smbmd rwjw ismg imsnri rajasingh922@khalsa.com zos& ey. myk.pwlz Awpxy iek lyk What s a Family iv~c ilkdw hy ik smwijk grup, ijs ivc iek, do jw ies qon v~d pivhiaw dy jia iek~ty rihx, ausnum privwr ikhw jwdw hy[ iehnw jiaw dw jivn-fmg, smwijk rsmw Aqy AwriQk gol swjy humdy hn, Aqy iek dusry dy suk duk di swj rkdy hn[ jo kuj AsIN hux hw, ieh swfy auqy purikaw Aqy hux dy privwirk mynbrw dy prbwv dw nqijw hy[privwr iek AYsw plyt-&wrm hy ijqon AsIN cmgiaw jw BYVIAW glw iskdy hw[privwrk mul qon hi AsIN glw krniaw, hwv Bwv,smwijk kdrw kimqw iskiaw[privwr dy pwlx posx dy FMg qon hi mnu~k svy-aibmwn vrgiaw KslqW dw mwlk bxdw hy[ijs b~cy di pwlxw ipawr nwl hovygi, auh izmdgi iv~c Awpxy Awp iv~c surikaw di Bwvnw rkdw hy, aus AMdr prbl svy-aibmwn di Bwvnw humdi hy[pr ipawr qon vwjy b~cy ies p~kon kmzor qy Awqm ivsvws qon skxy rih jwdy hn[ ijhnw GrW iv~c nisaw di vrqon humdi hovy, GrylU klys jw mwqw-ipqw ivc koei hor kmzoriaw hox qw Aijhy GrW dy b~cy jw qw mwnisk qor qy p~cv jwxgy jw ipr AnYiqk kwrvweiaw iv~c grs jwdy hn[ AwE, hux BwrqI sibawcwr di idrsti iv~c vi privwrk jivn bwry ivcwr kr leiey[ vyidk AwSrm isstm bwry mnum-ismrqi dsdi hy ik iek ihmdu num brhmcwiraw qy igrhsq dy pvwa lmgx qon bwad vwxprsq AwSrm Dwrn krnw humdw hy[ 25 swl qk brhmcwiraw qy ies qon Agy 50 swl qk igrhsq AwSrm Dwrn qy vwxprsq, izmdgi dy qisry pvwa lei mminaw hy qy ies Av~sQw lei AOsqn aumr 50 qon 74 swl, auhnw muqwbk imqi gei hy[ mmnu ismrqi Anuswr iehnw 24/25 swlw dorwn mnuk duinavi suk qy irsqy C~f ky jmglw iv~c jwvy qy prbu BgqI krky jivn s&lw kry[ guruu nwnk swhib ji ny jo inrml pmq, Bwv is~k m~q clwieaw, auh iehnw PwrmUilAW qon aupr aut ky bvw srl jivn jiaux di jwc dsdw hy[vyidk isstm Anuswr vwxprsq Dwrn krn vwilaw di igxqi nwm mwqr rhi, Bwv kwmxwb nw hoieaw[ clo jy ies vyidk AwSrm isstm num mmn vi leiey qw ies dw mqlb ieh hoieaw ik r~bi bmdgi 50 swl qon SurU krni humdi hy[ dusrw m~q si XogIAW dw jo ik igrhsq num mukqi iv~c vfi rukwvt smjdy sn[ bhuqy XogI qw ivawh hi nhin sn krwaundy qy ijhvy bwl b~icaw vwilaw num Xog m~q Dwrn krn di lwg lgdi, auh bwl privwr num iqlwjli dy ky jmglw nmu cly jwdy[
iehnw dy AYn ivpriq guruu nwnk swihb ji ny igrhsq Drm num auqm ds ky nroey privwr isrjx di jwc iskwei[dwrimk privrqiaw lei aumr di h~d nhin imqi blik izmdgi dw hryk suaws num r~bi BY BwvnI iv~c rihx di gl smjwei[ dusri gl not krn vwli hy ik guruu nwnk swihb dw m~q kyvl prmwrq qk simq nhin si[ guruu swihbwn ny Awpo Awpxy jivn kwl iv~c Aqy gurbwxi rwhin mnu~k mwqr di Dwrimk, smwijk, AwriQk qy rwjsi, hryk p~k qy AgvweI kiqi [ guru aupdys qy clx vwly is~k privwr iek tryinng skul hn ijs ivc ies dy mynbrw lei smwijk, AwriQk qy rwjsi jivn jwc diaw nhin auswriaw jwdiaw hn[ ies skul iv~c syvw qy pr-aupkwri jivn di GwVq GVI jwdi hy[jnm qon hi privwr iv~c pydw hoey b~cy dy mn ivc Dwrimk, sdwcwrk jivn qy iek dusry lei jiaux dy bij bijy jwdy hn[ guruu Arjn swihb, bwbw mni ismg ji diaw ShwdqW dw mul pirvwirk jzbw hi si[ AYsy AwdrSk privwr AwpxI ivq Anuswr b~icaw num ividaw dy ky qy auhnw num Awpxy pyrw qy KVy krdy hn[is~k privwrw ivc b~icaw di sihmqi nwl auhnw dw AnMd kwrj mwqw ipqw krdy hn is~k m~q iv~c AnMd kwrj iek duinawvi kwrj nhin sgon iek pivqr bmdn hy ijhvw smswr dy kwrj kridaw oinrmkwr nwl juvn dw mwrg bx jwdw hy b-sriq ies pivqr bmdn nmu pivqrqw nwl inbweiey[ ਭ ੩ ਧਨ ਪਰ ਏਪ ਨ ਆਖ ਅਪਨ ਫ ਪਨ ਇਕਠ ਇ ਏਕ ਜਪ ਦ ਇ ਭ ਰ ਧਨ ਪਰ ਕ ਐ ਸਇ ੩ { ਨ 788} ies qrwh do srir iek murqi hi nhin, do privwr vi iek ho jwdy hn[ s~c qy AwDwirq mirawdw-b~d ipawr vwlw jivn jiaux vwly mwqw ipqw rol mwfl humdy hn jo ik nroaw smwj isrjx vwly b~icaw dy pwlx lei vdiaw nrsri hn[qy AYsy pirvwrw dy b~cy jvwn ho ik izmyvwr ienswn bxdy hn qy mwqw ipqw di hi nhin smwj dy hryk prwxi dw bxdw siqkwr krdy hn[ ieh qw hy iek AwdrSk privwr di imswl, pr pdwrqvwd, PYSnvwd qy srirk csikaw ny swfy smwj dw smquln hi ivgwv ky r~k idqw hy, Aqy Aijhy AwdrSk pirvwrw di igxqi idn-b-idn GtdI jw rhi hy[ p~cmi sibaqw di hnyri ny swfiaw smwijk qy Dwrimk kdrw kimqw num bhuq D~kw mwiraw hy[mwqw-ipqw Kud Dwrimk ruciaw vwly nw hovx qw auh b~icaw qon ki Aws rkdy hn[ jykr ipqw nsy krdw hy, mw siqsmg di QW iktiaw qy kl~bw di SOkIn hy qw b~icaw qon suk SWqI Aqy mwx siqkwr di Aws nw rkx[ GrylU mwhol dw b~cy dy mwnisk ivkws nmu qih krdw hy[ qxwv Bry mwhol iv~c pilaw b~cw qlk, gusqw^ qy AprwDI ibrqi vwlw vi bx skdw hy[b~cw ijqni k~ci aumr dw hovy GrylU SWq jw ASWq vwqwvrn dw auqnw hi fumgw prbwv aus dy idl-idmwg qy sdw lei aukiraw jwdw hy ijsnum bdlxw bhuq AOKw ho jwdw hy[ Aijhy b~cy vfy ho ky AwpxIAW izmyvwriaw nhin inbwaundy[
fw: hrismdr kor ny iek lyk iv~c bvi drdnwk Gtnw ilki hy jo ieqy dsxi zruri smjdw hw[ auhnw Anuswr Bgq purn ismg ji iek bzurg imilaw jo ik bwviraw vwg ipr irhw si qy boly kuj nw[ ies bzurg kol kyvl iek fwieri qon ielwvw kuj nhin si[ fwieri iv~c aus ny Awpxy jivn diaw kuj XwdW ilkiaw hoeiaw sn[ iek QW qy ilikaw si, A~j myry vfy pu~qr ny mynnum ip~t qy D~kw mwr ky GroN kf idqw[ myn Xwd kr irhw hw ik iesy ip~t qy cu~k ky Awpxy lvky num skul ly ky jwdw qw myri ip~t dukx lg jwdi qw (myri pqni) svrn kihmdi, koei gl nhin vfw ho ky ieh qyri ip~t GuitAw krygw [ iek hor pmny qy ilikaw si,ik myri pqni Coty puqr bvw ipawr krdi qy AwpxI roti dw ih~sw vi aus num cori icpy KuAwauNdI pr A~j myry ausy Coty puqr ny AwpxI mw num ikhw, AwpxI roti dw Awp prbmd kr, koei kmm kr ly, swfy kolon quhwnum rotiaw nhin KuAw humdiaw [ ieh koei ivkloqri Gtnw nhin, ibrd AwSrmW iv~c kei Aijhy bzurg ruldy dyky jw skdy hn[ iehnw dy kwrn lbx di lov hy[ is~k privwr jo Sbd guru,u sri guruu grmq swihb ji num smripq AKvwauNdy jw idsdy hox, auhnw privwrw iv~c klys ikaun hy, ieh socx dw mslw hy[ies dw kwrn ieko hi hy ik AsIN guurbwxi dy aupdys num suxdy qw hw pr kmwaundy nhin qy rihq mirawdw Anuswr cldy nhin[ audwhrx vjon b~icaw dw AnMd kwrj iksy vi privwr iv~c bvw AnMd dw qy Aihm kwrj hy, pr jo A~j AsIN dyk rhy hw ik kw&i pirvwrw iv~c ivawh qon bwad JgVy qy klys KVHy ho jwdy hn[awm qor qy kwrn swfi lwlci ibrqi hy- dwj ivc eyh ciz nhin,eh ciz nhin AweI...kwS! swnum gurbwxi dy ieh bol hmysw Xwd rihx ਪਰ ਭਨਭ ਖ ਦ ਜ ਪਜ ਰਪਖ ਪਦਖ ਲਪ ਸ ਕ ੜ ਅ ਕ ਰ ਕਚ ਜ ਪਰ ਰਬ ਭਰ ਫ ਫ ਲ ਪਰ ਦਵ ਦ ਨ ਭ ਦ ਜ ੪ { ਨ 79} dwj dw lwlc qw mnuk num dirmdw bxw idmdw hy qy kei b~ciaw num moq dy mumh Dk idmdy hn...iesy lei gurbwxi iv~c swnum swvdwn kiqw hy ik: ਲਬ ਕ ਵਸ ਨ ਕ ਜ ਜ ਕ ਪਰ ਵਸ ਇ ਅ ਪ ਕ ਪਲ ਪ ਥ ਧ ਪਜਥ ਥ ਨ ਇ (1417) pirvwrk smquln privwr iek AijhI smsqw hy jo prwxi num ing qy jivn-roa bksdi hy[ nwl dy nwl aus num duinawvi vmgwrw dw swhmxw krn dy smr~q vi bxwaundi hy[ieh swrw FWcw ipawr Aqy ieqbwr auqy KVoqw hy[prspr ipawr ivc QoVI ijhi qryv vi privwirk FWcy num ivgwv ky r~k skdi hy[bwbw &rid ji dy bcn hn: ਇਕ ਪਪਕ ਨ ਗ ਲ ਇ ਸਬਨ ਭ ਸਚ ਧਣ ਪ ਆਉ ਨ ਕ ਠ ਪ ਭ ਣਕ ਸਬ ਅਭਲਵ ੧੨੯ { ਨ 1384}
ies lei Gr dy hr mynbr purn siqkwr qy ipawr dyx di lov hy[awpxy siqkwr Aqy ipawr di iecw qw hr koei rkdw hy pr dusry dy siqkwr di prvwh nhin[ gurbwxi dw &urmwx qw hy: ਰਬ ਅਵਪਲ ਅਲ ਨ ਰ ਉ ਇਆ ਕ ਦਰਪ ਕ ਸਬ ਫ ਦ ਏਕ ਨ ਰ ਸਬ ਜਗ ਉਪਜਆ ਕਉਨ ਬਲ ਕ ਭ ਦ ੧ pr swfy iv~c qw Awp qon CoitAW num hmysw hukmrwn lihjy ic hi bulwieaw jwdw hy...blw ikaun...? auhnw dw kyvl ieh hi ksur hy ik auh kuj swl bwad jmmy hn[ AnmqIAW iv~c Aorq di bykdri si, AOrq hvn jw X~g qy kei hor Dwrimk rsmw iv~c ihsw nhin ly skdi si, pyr di juqi qk smijaw jwdw si, keiaw m~qw iv~c Aorq di vot A~DI mmni jwdi si, pr guruu swihbwn ny iesqri dw purn siqkwr qy brwbr dy AiDkwr dw auopdys idqw[ hryk p~k qon aunqi dy bwvjud iesqri bwry swfw sluk ki hy...? ivsqwr iv~c ilkx di lov nhin[ bwki glw C~fo, iesqri jd vi pqi jw vfyry num smbodn krygi qw ausdy bol siqkwr Bry hoxgy pr mrd dy bol iesqri prqi ruky qy Krvy ikaun humdy hn...? sp~st hy ik ਸਬ ਘਟ ਰ ਭ ਫਲ ਰ ਭ ਫਲ ਰ ਭ ਪਫਨ ਕ ਫਲ ਰ ੧ ਰ ਉ (988) kyvl gurduawiraw iv~c hi AsIN auci auci zrur boldy hw, pr GrW ivc Aw ky izmdgi ivc ApxwauNdy nhin [AsIN kyvl iqauri dy is~k hw, prykitkl ivcon &yl...[ b~icaw num vi mwqw ipqw num r~j ky ipawr qy siqkwr idqw jwvy[ koei b~cw vi mwqw ipqw dw krzw qw nhin auqwr skdw pr ibrd Av~sQw ivc pujy mwqw-ipqw, dwdw dwdi di syvw krky cvhdi klw dw jivn bqiq kr skdy hn[ jykr Awpxy privwrw iv~c suk SWqI dw mwhol cwhumdy hw qw hryk jia iv~c r~b di joq num pihcwxiey, Gr dy jiaw nwl kyvl srirk irsqw nw smjiey, ieh vi guruu di smgq hy,ijs qrwh gurduawrw swihb ivc hryk iesqri, purs, Coty vfy dw Adb krdy hw, GrW iv~c jy Aijhw vrqwrw SurU kr dyeiey qw swfw Gr vi DrmSwl bx jwvygw: Gir Gir AMdir Drmswl hovy kirqn sdw vsoaw] ieh gl nhin BulxI cwhidi ik gurduawrw pwtswlw hy, auqy AsIN sbk iskx lei AwauNdy hw ijhvw ik jivn ivc Apnwaux nwl hi koei lwb ho skdw hy[audwhrx vjon gurduawrw swihb AsIN smgqw dy juty brqn mwjdy hw, lmgr vrqwaundy hw pr Gr ivc Awpxy lei pwxi dw iglws Brnw mrdwau-puxy num Tys smjdy hw qy pwxi pix qon bwad KwlI iglws vi cukxw kyvl AOrqW dw kmm smjdy hw[ iesy qrhw siqsmgq iv~c qw AsIN im~ty imty bol boldy hw pr GrW iv~c swfi boli hi hor humdi hy[ies lei gurduawrw swihb iv~c jw ky ji iskiey, aus num smwijk vrqwry iv~c pryktikli ApxweIey[ guruu nwnk swihb ji ny ies lei Kbrdwr kiqw hy: ਭ ੧ ਗਲ ਅਸ ਚ ਗ ਆ ਆਚ ਰ ਫ ਰ ਆ ਭਨ ਕ ਸ ਧ ਕ ਲ ਆ ਫ ਪਰ ਪਚਟਵ ਆ (85)
Gr dy jiaw ivc rb dyko, smswrk irsqw ipe/puqr, pqi/pqni, numh/s~s dw hy pr prmwrq di loa iv~c qw s~b r~bi joq hn ਸਬ ਭਪ ਜਪ ਜਪ ਸਇ ਪ ਸ ਦ ਚ ਨਪਣ ਸਬ ਭਪ ਚ ਨਣ ਇ ਗ ਰ ਸ ਖ ਜਪ ਰਗਟ ਇ ਜ ਪ ਸ ਬ ਵ ਸ ਆਰ ਇ ੩ (13) ਸਬ ਗਪਫ ਦ ਸਬ ਗਪਫ ਦ ਗਪਫ ਦ ਪਫਨ ਨ ਕਈ ਸ ਏਕ ਭਪਣ ਸ ਸ ਸ ਜਸ ਪ ਪ ਰਬ ਸਈ ੧ ਰ ਉ (485) pr Gr phumcidaw hi pqw nhin ieh qukw ikaun nhin Xwd rihmdiaw[ pihlw Gr qon SurU kriey,auhnw iv~c r~b dykiey qy Awihsqw Awihsqw swfi socxi bdl jwvygi qy swnum swry smwj r~bi joq dw AnuBv hovygw[ ieh glw ilkxiaw qy pvhniaw ijqniaw Awswn hn, ApnwaxXIAW auqniaw sokiaw nhin[ ies iv~c v~fw AiVkw hy swfi AhMqw jw myn myri di Bwvnw[jy GrylU klys mukwauxw cwhumdy hw qw ies ibrqi qon injwq pwauxi pvygi[ AwE, gurbwxi di syd iv~c AwdrSk is~k privwrw di isrjxw vl A~j qon hi kdm putxw SurU kriey[