St. Stanislaus Kostka Parish is a community dedicated to proclaiming the Gospel of Jesus Christ as taught by the Roman Catholic Church through Word, Sacraments and Service while preserving and sharing the cultural roots of the Parish. MISSION STATEMENT February 12, 2017 Parafia Świętego Stanisława Kostki jest wspólnotą, której celem jest głoszenie Ewangelii Jezusa Chrystusa według nauki Kościoła Rzymskokatolickiego. Misją parafii jest głoszenie Słowa Bożego, sprawowanie Sakramentów oraz służenie innym w zachowaniu tradycji kulturowych. 1124 Hudson Ave., Rochester, NY 14621 Rectory at 34 St. Stanislaus St. Phone: 467 3068 Fax: 467 3072 e mail address: rststani@dor.org Website:www.saintstanislausrochester.org Find us on Facebook: St Stanislaus Kostka Church Rochester REV. ROMAN CALY DCN. RAYMOND MIELCAREK Pastor Deacon (Retired) MRS. SONJA STENCLIK MRS. BRIDGET NOWAK MRS. MAGDALENA WNUK MRS. PAMELA MOORE MR. DARIUSZ TEREFENKO MRS. DOROTHY PROCACCINI PARISH COUNCIL: MR. HENRY HERDZIK MR. WALDEK WOJDAK MS. KATHY GUSTYN Pastoral Coordinator Finance Director Secretary/Bookkeeper Religious Education Coordinator Organist Senior Ministries Chairperson Vice-Chairperson Secretary OFFICE HOURS: Monday through Friday 9:00 AM 2:30 PM. Saturday: 9:00 AM. 1:00 PM. Evenings by appointment MASS SCHEDULE: Saturday: 8:00 a.m. and 4:00 p.m. Sunday: 9:00 a.m. (English) 11:00 a.m. (Polish) Weekdays: Monday 8:00 a.m., Tuesday 5:30 p.m., Wednesday 8:00 a.m. Thursday 8:00 a.m. and 5:30 p.m., Friday 8:00 a.m. and 6:00 p.m. with Holy Hour at 5:15 p.m. and Chaplet of Divine Mercy at 6:30 p.m. SACRAMENT OF PENANCE Saturday: 3:00 3:40 p.m. or by appointment Please remember the ST. STANISLAUS CHURCH OF ROCHESTER, NY (our legal title) considering bequests, endowments, memorials or other special contributions when making out your will. All donations are tax deductible. SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM: Sundays at 12:15 p.m. or by appointment SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE: Couples are asked to contact the office at least six months before marriage is to take place. NEW PARISHIONERS: Welcome! Please stop at the Rectory during business hours and introduce yourself. We would like to get to know you. CARE OF THE SICK: Inform staff when relatives are confined to home so that we can arrange to have the Eucharist brought to them. Please notify us of family members living in nursing homes or institutions.
SATURDAY FEBRUARY 11 Vigil: Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time 4:00 p.m. Chester Krol Sr. 56th Wedding Anniversary remembrance (Wife) SUNDAY - FEBRUARY 12 Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time 9:00 a.m. Nikodem Laskowski on the 40th anniversary of his passing (Daughter Teresa) 11:00 a.m. Polish Mass Agnieszka Suchodolski (Maria Suchodolski) MONDAY FEBRUARY 13 8:00 a.m. Blessings and healing of good health for Eugene Antczak (8:00 a.m. Mass friends) TUESDAY FEBRUARY 14 Saints Cyril, Monk, and Methodius, Bishop Valentine s Day 5:30 p.m. Patti Pollock (Stanley Pollock) WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 15 8:00 a.m. Carl Juda (Holy Name of Jesus Society) THURSDAY FEBRUARY 16 8:00 a.m. Leo Krzanowicz (Wife) 5:30 p.m. Mary Piccinino (Jane and Jim Mills) FRIDAY - FEBRUARY 17 The Seven Holy Founders of the Servite Order 8:00 a.m. Zofia, Józef i Franciszek Kaczor (Córka, Emilia Herdzik) 5:15 p.m. Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament and Confession 6:00 p.m. Gertrude Wierzbicki (Kathy Jedrzejek) 6:30 p.m. Chaplet of Divine Mercy SATURDAY FEBRUARY 18 8:00 a.m. St. Stanislaus parishioners Vigil: Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time 4:00 p.m. Regina and Stanley Pollock (Children and Grandchildren) SUNDAY - FEBRUARY 19 Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time 9:00 a.m. Eleanor Kawka (Chuck and Jan Vorndran) 11:00 a.m. Polish Mass Stanisław and Eufenia Piotrowski (Adela Piotrowski) Holy Hour on Friday & Chaplet of Divine Mercy Each Friday join us at 5:15 p.m. for the Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament. Also every Friday we pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy after the 6:00 p.m. Mass. Live the Liturgy Inspiration for the Week This week and next Jesus presents challenges to Christians to go beyond the strictures of the law and to engage in a deeper understanding of what it can mean to follow Christ. Are we ready to do that with our whole heart? Words to Inspire the Faithful Act today in such a way that you need not blush tomorrow --St. John Bosco A very warm welcome is extended to all who have come to St. Stanislaus Church to worship this weekend. We are grateful to our parishioners and we welcome our guests who visit us this weekend. SCHEDULE OF EVENTS SUNDAY FEBRUARY 12 Coffee Hour after the Masses MONDAY FEBRUARY 13 6:15 p.m. Religious Education Classes (Religious Education Center) 7:30 p. m. - Northeast Freedom AA Group meeting (Auditorium) WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 15 6:30 p. m. Parish Council meeting (Religious Education Center) SATURDAY FEBRUARY 18 9:00 a.m. First Reconciliation First Communion Classes 10:00 a.m. Polish School 3:00 p.m. 7:00 p.m. Spaghetti Dinner (Auditorium) SUNDAY FEBRUARY 19 Coffee Hour after the Masses
6th Sunday in Ordinary Time Encourage Deeper Understanding of Scripture "Whoever obeys and teaches these commandments will be called greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven." Jesus presents two paths for us today: we can break His commandments or obey them. And the result corresponds to our choice. If we decide not to follow God's guidelines, we will not enjoy the fullness of the Kingdom of Heaven. But if we choose otherwise, Eternity will look much brighter for us! Of course, it's easy to know in our minds what the right choice is. But putting this into practice is another matter. The commandments Jesus gives in today's Gospel are not easy to follow. He takes the ancient Ten Commandments to a deeper level of commitment. He says more than do not kill. Rather, do not even harbor anger in our hearts. He says more than do not commit adultery. Rather, do not even indulge in lustful thoughts. He says more than do not lie. Rather, do not even swear. Undoubtedly, Jesus is asking us to chart a challenging course. But He would not expect us to follow these directives if it were impossible to do so. And it's important to bear in mind that Jesus doesn't set high standards to test or punish us. His love for us is at the root of everything He teaches us. Following these commandments, challenging though they may be, will in fact make us happier people, both now and in Eternity! As with so many good things in life, committed effort on our part is necessary--whether it be maintaining good health, accomplishing a certain skill, or earning a sought-after award. So too with a soul that is truly free. We need to exercise a life of virtue by taking the advice of Jesus Christ, the best life coach we could ever hope to have. "You have heard that it was said, You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy. But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Heavenly Father." - Mt 5:43-45a Why Do We Do That? Catholic Traditions Explained Question: I read in the catechism that marriage is indissoluble. Why then does the church issue an annulment? Answer: The description of marriage as indissoluble is found in several places in the "Catechism of the Catholic Church." Described as required by spousal love (#1644) and as foundational to the union of marriage (#1646), this quality of marriage draws its meaning from the fidelity of Jesus to His Church (#1647). Spouses give themselves once and forever to each other, forming a sacramental bond that binds them as one. Indissolubility presumes and depends upon the sacramental bond between spouses. An annulment does not destroy the bond. Instead, it shows that a sacramental bond never took place because, at the time of the vows, something was either present or absent that made the consent invalid. The ceremony itself does not bring about a sacrament, but rather the full, free, and able consent of a man and woman, one to the other. The husband and wife are the ministers of the sacrament to each other because they give the gift of themselves to one another. The priest is the official witness. Therefore, if the gift of self is not given, or is held back for any reason, no sacrament takes place. Please Pray for Please pray for all those in hospitals, who are ill or recovering from surgery, and all those ailing at home, in hospice or in nursing homes. Please keep in your prayers: Linda Adams, Phyllis Adamski, Marylu Balacki, Ruth Banaszak, Arlene Bialaszewski, Dolores Biddle, Leonard Brozak, Ian Joseph Bruckhaus, Joseph Camptone, Carol Capidone, Norma Coleman, Carl Conde, Linda Cranston, Nolan Cybulski, Irene Czerwiec, Lee Daly-Homa, Irene Drake, Hania Ferenc, Casimera Francione, Phyllis Gardiner, Eleanore Golomb, Joanne Hawkes-Orman, Veronica Hajecki, Ruth Hoffman, Kathy Przyklek-Jedrzejek, Connie Kawka, Zofia Kiliszek, Hanna Knapik, Irene Knight, Joan and Nick Legonelli, Norma Leblanc, Irene Lichwiarz, Anne May, Theodore McCracken, Kathleen McHugh, Jim Mills, Justina Montanez, Iwona Muszak, Helena Nadworniak, Emily Nakas, Maria Nawrocki-Dzyban, Susan Oberle, Thomas I. Orczyk, Cristine Paradowski, Vincent Parks Jr., Walter Pawlak, Gloria and Bernie Pensek, Quinn Pomroy, Jan Quist, Genevieve Rodgers, Zofia Robaczynski, Fabian Rogalski, Joe Rogers, Shirley Rojek, Trudy Rosolowski, Paul Russello, Rick Rosser, Elaine Scalzo, Tom Schramil, Genevieve Skiba, Stephen Skura, Sharon Smith, George Swartz, Trudy Swol, Bernard and Trina Weeg, Irena Wiśniewski, Janet Zienkiewicz, Ann Zukosky and Józef Zawitkowski. To add a loved one s name to this prayer list or to take someone off the prayer list, please call the parish office at 467-3068. If you or a family member is admitted to the hospital and would like Fr. Roman to visit and/or administer the Sacrament of Healing, please call the rectory. Day of Penance and Mercy You are being called to a life of forgiveness. Accept God s invitation! As we prepare for the Season of Lent, prepare yourself to embrace the gift of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Learn more at http://forgiven.dor.org or contact your parish offices. Churches across the Diocese of Rochester will open their doors for those seeking the Sacrament of Reconciliation on Tuesday, March 28. Join the Diocese in celebrating God s mercy and love at the Day of Penance and Mercy. Learn more at http://forgiven.dor.org or contact your parish offices. Have questions about the Sacrament of Reconciliation? Has it been a while since you last celebrated? There is nothing to fear. Visit http://forgiven.dor.org and click on Commonly Asked Questions to ease your worries. Rchester Catholic Women s Conference Morning with Immaculée Saturday, March 18, 2017 The Aquinas Institute 1127 Dewey Avenue, Rochester, NY 14613 The event will be a 4 hr. event, starting with Mass celebrated by Bishop Matano, followed by a continental breakfast. The guest speaker will be Immaculée Ilibagaza, Rwandan genocide survivor and author of seven books about her faith and life journey. A benediction and book signing will follow. Cost is $25 and registration is open. Conference organizers are working on online registration going, but as of now people can download the registration form at http://rochestercwc.org/ and send it by U.S. mail.
VI Niedziela Zwykła Bóg tak bardzo szanuje ludzką wolność, że daje prawo wyboru pomiędzy dobrem a złem. Prawdziwa mądrość człowieka polega na tym, aby wybierać dobro. Prawo Boże zostało nam więc dane jak światło i drogowskaz na rozstajne drogi; trzeba je najpierw poznać, potem przyjąć i umiłować; wreszcie wypełniać wiernie w swym życiu. Jezus wymaga od uczniów, aby nie ograniczali się do przestrzegania prawa - mają dawać z siebie więcej, niż powinni. Nie tylko nie zabijać, ale nawet nie gniewać się; nie tylko nie cudzołożyć, ale nie patrzeć pożądliwie na kobietę; nie tylko nie przysięgać fałszywie, ale szanować swoje slowo. Dlatego powinniśmy zaskakiwać ludzi dobrocią i wielkodusznością... Miłość jest piękna. Młodzi w gruncie rzeczy szukają zawsze piękna w miłości, chca, ażeby ich miłość była piękna. Jeśli ulegują swoim słabością, jeżeli idą za tym wszystkim, co można by nazwać zgorszeniem współczesnego świata (...) to w głębi serca pragną pięknej i czystej miłości (...) I ostatecznie wiedzą że takiej miłości nikt im nie może dać,tylko Pan Bóg. Podziękowanie Komitet Festywalowy dziękuje wszystkim parafianom i przyjaciołom naszej parafii, którzy poparli Placki Ziemniaczane na Śniadanie. Dochód w sumie $1,500 jest przeznaczony na wydatki naszej parafii. Spaghetti Supper Social Concerns Committee zaprasza parafian i gości na Spaghetti Supper w Sobotę, 18-go Lutego, 2017, od 3-7-ej wieczorem. Cena: $9 dorośli, studenci: $5, poniżej 5 lat za darmo, rodzina (4 osoby) $25. W cenie obiadu jest włączona: sałatka, chleb, deser i napój. Zapraszamy! Modlitwa do św. Walentego Święty Walenty, opiekunie tych, którzy się kochają, Ty, który z narażeniem życia urzeczywistniłeś i głosiłeś ewangeliczne przesłanie pokoju, Ty, który dzięki męczeństwu przyjętemu z miłości -zwyciężyłeś wszystkie siły obojętności, nienawiści i śmierci, wysłuchaj naszą modlitwę: W obliczu rozdarć i podziałów w świecie daj nam zawsze kochać miłością pozbawioną egoizmu, abyśmy byli pośród ludzi wiernymi świadkami miłości Boga. Niech ożywiają nas miłość i zaufanie, które pozwolą nam przezwyciężać życiowe przeszkody. Prosimy Cię, wstawiaj się za nami do Boga, który jest źródłem wszelkiej miłości i wszelkiego piękna, i który żyje i króluje na wieki wieków. Amen. Food Drive Just 1 Can (or 2)!!!! Food donations have gone down significantly after the holidays. Please bring in JUST ONE Can- (TWO would be even better) of food each week. This will help to feed more families during these cold winter days. Each week (although ANY food item is welcome) we will list a food that is critically needed for the Sr. Regis Food Cupboard. IF EVERYONE that comes to Mass each week brings in a can, box or bag of food, we will fill the Food Cupboard with about 400 items! Thank you for your continued support for those in need! Next week please bring: Cereal and Canned fruit Thank You and Our Apologies In January the Opłatek Dinner Dance was a great opportunity for our parish family to spend an evening with delicious dinner, a play by the Polish School children and wonderful music. We never provided you with the amount of the profit that this great undertaking brought for our parish. Today we are correcting this. We raised $4,315 from selling of the tickets and subtracting the expenses (band, security, food) we raised $3,575. Additionally group #27 of the PNA raised an additional $800 from the lottery. We thank everyone who was involved in any way in this wonderful fundraiser and we are very grateful. Save the Date: March 24-26th, 2017 St Stanislaus Men's Retreat Weekend at Notre Dame Retreat House overlooking Canandaigua Lake "If Life Is Too Busy". You are invited by God to spend time in prayer, calm down your life with time spent at the retreat house Friday evening to noon on Sunday. For reservation or questions call parish retreat leader: Bernie Bialaszewski (585) 467-5492. Thank You for Your Support! The Festival Committee would like to thank our many friends and parishioners who supported our Potato Pancake Breakfast. The food was just delicious! What a delight it was to see so many of you come in support of this fundraiser. We netted $1,500 for parish expenses. We pray that You will kindle in our hearts the will to care for the needy, to show kindness to the poor, to aid the homeless and help the helpless. Extraordinary Ministers - Lectors - Commentators Altar Servers Ushers Schedule for Saturday and Sunday: February 18-19, 2017 Mass Time Extraordinary Ministers of the Holy Communion Lectors Commentators Altar Servers Ushers Saturday 4:00 p.m. Lynda Duncan Gerry Wilson Sonja Stenclik Sonja Stenclik Jenna Taha Gene Golomb George Madden, Bill Brand, Paul Jasen Sunday 9:00 a.m. Veronica Schoenheit Bernadette Trox Mike/Mary Yackiw Kristina Batt Sister Karlien Amanda/Jack/Phillip Procaccini, Lexi/Tori Hajec Stephen Zielinski, Eugene Chmiel Sr. Ken Gustyn Don Williams Sunday Polish Mass 11:00 a.m. Halina Kiljan Walter Kiljan Witold Lawrynowicz Grażyna Lawrynowicz Maria Makula Jan Wnuk, Lucja Rzepa John Knick, Mark Sewhuk, Maciej Kostecki, Bronislaw Suchodolski
Saturday, February 18: Spaghetti Dinner! On Saturday, February 18th, from 3:00 p.m. 7:00 p.m. our Social Concerns Committee will hold its annual Spaghetti Dinner: pasta, meatballs, salad, bread, beverage and dessert. Adults: $9; students: $5; children under 5: free; family of 4: $25. Proceeds from this fundraiser will go towards our Church expenses and for Cancer Research. Please mark your calendar and plan on attending this delicious spaghetti dinner in support of this parish fundraiser. Yearly Budget 7/1/16-6/30/17: $323,548 Our Gifts to God For the Work of Our Church For the weekend of February 4-5, 2017 Offering: Attendance: Saturday 4:00 p.m. $ 1,532.00 104 Sunday 9:00 a.m. $ 1,655.00 141 11:00 a.m. $ 1,326.00 148 Rectory $ 678.00 Vigil Lights $ 223.62 I said a Valentine prayer for you and asked the Lord above to fill your heart and bless your soul with the precious gift of love. I asked Him for sincere love. The kind that's meant to stay Just like the generous love you give to those you touch each day. I prayed for love from family and from every cherished friend, then I asked the Lord to give you His love that knows no end. Support Those Who Advertise in Our Bulletin The Saint Stanislaus Parish Bulletin is provided for our parish through the generosity of the advertisers on the back pages of the bulletin. Please support their businesses. This week we thank: Andy s Candies As of February 5, 2017: $185,398 Online Giving for January $ 2,360.00 God s Word tells us there are blessings to be found when we return to the Lord from the blessings we have received. Gratitude An attitude of gratitude is a neverending prayer. Gratitude and faith are brothers, and their children - optimism and enthusiasm are first cousins. Gratitude can transform common days into Thanksgiving, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.